Is Dad mad?

I have met many people who have a hard time trusting God the Father because of past family traumas. It seemed interesting to me that they would rather trust Jesus. In my counseling practice, I noticed that the image of Jesus seemed to bring them comfort and help. The Bible does say, “‘Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.’” (Matthew 11:28, NIV)

Have you ever had a hard time trusting your heavenly Father? 

As I’ve studied the Word and counseled thousands of people, I’ve discovered that everyone has a God concept. A God concept is the way you see God and feel about Him. It was developed through your experience with your parents or primary caretakers. In most cases, it’s quite subconscious, but it has a huge influence on your interpretations of life.

Do you need to change the way you see God the Father or feel about Him? 

I grew up with a very strict dad. To tell you the truth, I was terrified of him. I wanted his approval but felt like I could never get it. Unfortunately, I transferred those same feelings to my heavenly Father. My God concept was distorted. 

I think that Paul understood this tendency. In 2 Corinthians 3:4, he says, “And we have such trust through Christ toward God.” (2 Corinthians 3:4, NKJV)

Jesus is the bridge to an invisible Father who may seem terrifying but in truth is not. Jesus said, “‘… Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, “Show us the Father”?’” (John 14:9, NIV)

We trust God now because we’ve seen Christ. The Lamb of God and the Prince of Peace are easier to trust. Jesus is the way to God. You can trust Him. 

Because you are His miracle.