Have you discovered the power of your words?

Have you discovered the power of your words? The Bible says, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” (Proverbs 18:21, NIV)  

Words can destroy a marriage, business, family, or career. Words can also give life. The Bible also says, “‘The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing. The words I have spoken to you—they are full of the Spirit and life.’” (John 6:63, NIV)

During this series on relationships, I’ve tried to demonstrate the power you have to build healthy relationships. You are not a victim of some invisible force that has doomed your ability to build strong and rewarding relationships.

My relationship with my dad was not very good. I often felt rejected, hurt, and abandoned by my dad. He was a workaholic who suffered from the damage of World War II and interesting family dynamics. I never realized until I was 32 years old that my dad really did love me but that he didn’t have the tools to show it. That realization had a huge impact on my self-esteem and confidence. I decided I would no longer feel like a victim but that I would start changing things with my words and love. 

Have you started the journey of empowerment? Do you know that although you may have been victimized, you are not a victim anymore? It’s time to take back your life with your words. Think of yourself as a dispenser and not a consumer. Get filled up every day with the Word of God, the Spirit, and your own self-talk, then pour out to others. You’ll be surprised by the changes.

God’s Word cannot be denied: “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.” (Galatians 6:7, NIV) Every word that comes out of your mouth should be kind, encouraging, insightful, and Spirit-led. Your mouth should be full of honey, and you will see a whole new group of people attracted to it. 

Because you are a miracle.